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I decided to write this article for you today, even though it’s a little different than the information I usually put up here on the blog, because I honestly believe this has the power to change your life for the better.
I know it changed mine, and I feel so strongly about it that I couldn’t bring myself NOT to share it with you.
By now I’m sure you’ve at least heard of the movie The Secret, even if you haven’t actually seen it. But just in case, The Secret is all about something called The Law of Attraction, which basically says that we attract everything that’s in our lives, whether it’s good or bad, through our thoughts and emotions.
What’s really important about this is that, as you’ll notice, this philosophy of the way the world works says that we attract both good AND bad — whether consciously or unconsciously. So that means that you somehow, some way, attracted whatever relationship problems you’re having right now.
I don’t want that to sound harsh. But I’ll tell you what — I’ve seen this theory proven out time and time again in my own life. Once you accept that you’re in control over everything that happens in your life, I can’t tell you how empowering it is!
Here are a couple clips that kind of sum up what the movie is all about. The first is designed to be a sort of daily source of motivation.
The second is a “leaked” clip of the first 20 minutes of the movie.
Take a look and then please keep reading below the vids…
The Secret - Motivational Clip: Play Now
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The reason why I’m telling you about this is because when I first first saw the movie about a year and a half ago, back when the only way you could get it was to go the website and pay to watch it online, it totally changed my life.
I was going through a really tough time when I decided to check it out, and I’m more than a little embarrassed to admit that by the end I was actually crying.
Now I hardly ever cry because of a movie, but this thing so touched me, and made me realize how much joy we can have in our lives, that I just broke down.
It touches on everything — how to be more successful financially, how to overcome enormous obstacles, and, maybe of most interest to you right now, how to have an absolutely amazing relationship.
Basically, how to find AND KEEP your soulmate.
If you haven’t seen it go rent it from Netflix or Blockbuster or wherever you get your DVDs.
It really can be a life-changing experience.
Anyway, the reason I’m writing to you about it is because, while it really did work for me in helping me to create the life I’ve always dream of, sometimes it seemed that the principles she teaches didn’t always work.
It’s hard to explain, but something just seemed to be blocking me from achieving certain things in some areas, while in other areas of my life, everything would play out exactly as I wanted.
I’ve never really been much of a “self-help” kind of person. I never bought tapes or books or anything like that. But thanks to this movie and the experiences I had afterwards, I started looking into this a little more, and actually buying some audio programs and other products that helped me grow, become more self-aware, and yes, improve my life dramatically.
One of my favorite places to get these programs is a place called Nightingale-Conant. They have some truly amazing programs there from some of the best minds in the world on all kinds of topics.
The more programs I get from them, the more I want! They’re THAT good.
One of my favorites is something called The Missing Secret
by Dr. Joe Vitale. This was one of the first programs I got from them, and I did so because, like I said above, while the principles taught in the movie
The Secret seemed to work most of time, they didn’t work 100% of the time. The Missing Secret
changed all that.
It really is a remarkable program and will help you understand why you are where you are in your life right now, and how to get to where you really want to be. Click on the links above or on the image below to check it out for yourself.
The second Nightingale-Conant product I highly recommend is a program from Anthony Robbins called Unleash the Power Within
Tony Robbins is a guy I used to make fun off because he always seemed so over the top. But since I’ve picked up a few of his products and actually used them, I can see what a truly genuine guy he is. And I’ll tell you, he’s an amazing motivator.
If this guy can’t get your life headed in the right direction, I’d be shocked. Honestly.
I encourage you to check out this program here
. Actually, anything you find by Robbins on the Nightingale site is going to be good. I just happen to like this one in particular.
So that’s it, gang. Like I said, I know that this post is a little different from the others I do, but I really want to make sure that you know about all the great tools out there that you can use for creating lasting relationships that really, truly work.
I hope you’ll take a look at some of the things mentioned above and let me know what you think.
When you are in a situation where your heart is broken and your significant other has left, you may find that you would like nothing more than to forget it ever happened.
The truth is, no matter what we wish that past relationship is something that will always be a part of us, and will we always remember the joy as well as the pain of a breakup.
If you are in a situation where you want to think about what you can do to make a breakup hurt less, take a look at a few tips below.
But first, I want you to understand and really, truly, honestly know deep in your heat that you don’t have to accept the break up.
In fact, there are very simple and easy ways to get your ex back. There’s a really short but incredibly powerful 9-minute video you can watch that will totally change everything for you in your relationship. But don’t take my word for it. Watch the video here and prove it to yourself.
Once you’ve done that, here are some tips to help you deal with a break up while you’re working on getting back together.
1. Don’t bash your ex
This might feel like second nature and the truth is that you might have some friends who will be all about helping you do this, but bashing your ex never helps anything. All you will be doing is going over ground that you have already covered and you will find that this will give you an extremely bitter reputation among your friends. Keep any nasty words to yourself and really think about what you can do in order to stay positive about things.
2. Get cleaned up
If you’ve already had the watch lots of movies and ignore the world phase, it’s time to get over that. Everyone loves to wallow at least a little, but there will come a time where that is simply not appropriate. When you are thinking about what you can do in order to make sure that you are on your way to getting over your breakup, stop and get cleaned up. Start taking care of yourself and don’t let self-pity pull you down into a pit of despair.
3. Something new
After you have broken up with someone that you love very much, try doing something that can be just yours alone. Take some time and really think about the things that you like to do, and think about how you can start doing something that is yours alone. If old hobbies that involved your ex are just too painful now, take some time and really think about what hobbies that you can take up that will not recall painful memories.
4. Don’t rebound
Though it might seem very tempting to immediately get involved in a relationship with someone else, you will find that there are many different reasons why you simply should not! You are not ready to date anyone else at the moment; you are going to be carrying a lot of your emotions and reactions over, and that is not fair to yourself or the new person that you are thinking about. Take some time to really think about what you want.
5. Don’t get over it
If you keep thinking about your ex, there might be a reason why. Sometimes, no matter how much you try to do it, a breakup is not the best thing for either of you. If you need to get back into the relationship, think about ways that you can do that and think about what you can do to get started. It is far from impossible, so put your efforts into getting back into your relationship, not getting over it!
Remember my advice from earlier. When it’s so easy to save a relationship and get your ex back, there’s no reason to settle for a break up and start feeling sorry for yourself. None!
Take action now! Watch this video and in under 10 minutes you’ll have a proven gameplan for saving any relationship. It works. You can thank me later.