Breaking up is always a very painful thing — no doubt about it.
If you are truly in love with your girlfriend, it’s difficult to get her out of your mind. It’s a tough time for you, yes, but there isn’t any need to despair. Though it’s difficult, it’s not impossible to woo back your girlfriend.
But first, let’s talk about some of the things you should NEVER do. I’ll be honest. When my girlfriend broke up with me, I did all these things and a few more that aren’t even mentioned. And it delayed our getting back together by months.
Now listen, the first thing you need to do is go here and watch this 10 minute video. It will spell out step-by-step the first things you have to do to start the process of winning your girlfriend back.
It even has some tips for what to do if you made all the WRONG moves already like I did. You can recover from it and get back on the road to reconciliation, but you have to start doing the right things immediately.
So watch this video and then come back here.
Okay, now, you need to sit down and think out the answers of a few questions essential to any relationship. You need to ask yourself: What went wrong? Honestly, do you think it’s your fault? And finally, are you ready to give it another shot? Do you really want your girlfriend back?
It’s important to know the reason for the disintegration of the relationship. If you do decide that you want to get back together with your girlfriend you need to know what went wrong in the relationship in the first place. Was there another man? Is she still interested in you? What did she complain about in the relationship? It’s important that you get a clear and honest view of the relationship, without prejudices or bias.
Only if you know the reason for the relationship having gone wrong can you try to make it work again.
It’s essential that you show your ex-girlfriend that you still care.
If you think that you had changed earlier, try to change back to the person she fell in love with. Remember what she liked and disliked when you two were together. Invite her over for lunch if you’re still on cordial terms with her, or send her little gifts to show how much you love her.
Have confidence in yourself. Don’t become a miserable loser /stalker: your ex will respect you for it.
There are some underhand, sly tricks in the book that you could try as a last resort. Like trying to date another girl. If your ex-girlfriend still cares about you and wants to get back together, this will definitely get her jealous and might make her regret her decision.
However, don’t get too involved in this particular method, she might just think that you have moved on and are no longer interested!
Another good method might be The Talk. Yes, this is what most guys dread but in fact, can lead to a better understanding of where you and your ex stand. Invite her over for coffee and your favorite coffee place and honestly talk to each other.
Try to express how you feel at the present moment, ask her what she went through and whether she thinks that you can still work it out. It’s important that you be both loyal to her and be completely frank.
All relationships need hard work to make it successful. So decide whether you are committed enough to go that extra mile. If you two really care about each other and understand each other’s emotional needs, it’s best that you try to mend the cracks.
Click here for the best advice I’ve found on how to win your girlfriend back. Believe me, it works.
But remember, if she doesn’t want you back, there’s no point in hanging onto lost causes. Try to re-evaluate your priorities and move on.